Fostering Hope: A Journey of Strength and Possibility
By Oklahoma Commission on Children and Youth
Ginarie Harrington, a Commissioner for the Oklahoma Commission on Children and Youth, is deeply committed to helping families in need. Her journey into foster parenting is not just a calling but a testament to her commitment to the importance of family.
"For us, fostering is about fostering the family," she shares. "Every child who enters our home is a bonus. We see it as an opportunity to not only care for the child but also to mentor, pray for, encourage, support, and empower their biological families."
The decision to become foster parents came unexpectedly in 2012 when she received a call from Oklahoma Human Services (OKDHS) seeking placement for a 4-year-old boy. The mother had listed Ginarie and her husband as potential caregivers. With her background as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, therapist, TBRI practitioner, and CEO of a foster care agency, she recognized the profound need for a stable and supportive home for a child in crisis.
"I see the need every day," she explains. "And I've witnessed firsthand the transformative power of support, education, and resources in helping families reunite and thrive."
Ginarie's dedication to fostering extends far beyond the walls of her own home. In her previous role with Circle of Care, she spearheaded initiatives like parent-to-parent mentorship programs, providing vital support to biological families navigating the complexities of the child welfare system.
Reflecting on her journey, she shares touching moments highlighting foster care's importance. "I've sat in waiting rooms with babies undergoing procedures, with no family members present to comfort them afterward," she recalls. "But I've also seen families reunite, strengthened by the support and resources they've received."
Fostering has enriched her understanding of family and community in numerous ways. "It truly takes a village," she emphasizes. "Over the years, we've welcomed 23 children into our home and witnessed them return to their families or find their forever homes. Our connections with these families continue on as we celebrate milestones, attend events, and offer ongoing support."
Yet, fostering comes with its share of challenges. She acknowledges the messiness and emotional toll of the journey. "It's hard. It's chaotic. But it's worth it," she states. "Every hardship fades in the light of a restored family."
For those considering foster parenting, she offers this advice: "Say yes. Don't let fear or uncertainty hold you back. Every child deserves a safe and loving home, and every family deserves support and encouragement."
As National Foster Care Awareness Month shines a light on the critical need for foster families, Ginarie's message resonates louder than ever. "Everyone can do something," she states. "Whether fostering a child, supporting foster families, or mentoring biological families, every act of kindness makes a difference."
In a world where a child enters foster care every two minutes, Ginarie's story is a source of hope, reminding us of the power of compassion, community, and unwavering love.
To learn more about how you can become a foster parent or family, please visit marlandsplace.com -or- okfosters.org.