Independent Living Program Helps Foster Youth Transition to Adults

OKLAHOMA CAPITOL -- Growing up often presents a number of obstacles, and coming of age without parents or a family can make that process even more difficult. Fortunately, the Independent Living (IL) program administered through the Oklahoma Department of Human Services (OKDHS) helps ease the transition to adulthood.

The IL program helps ensure the transition of young people between the ages of 16-21 from state custody, helping them become self-sufficient and successful adults.

“I think the most important thing to note about all these young men and women is that they have overcome many hardships and heartaches in their short lives,” said Darla Hill-Myers, a program field representative in OKDHS’ IL program.  “Many of these kids have experienced and seen things none of us will ever be able to imagine or have to experience in our lifetimes. They have pulled from these circumstances to make themselves stronger, more determined and successful.”

Through the IL program, a number of young men and women in state custody were recently given the opportunity to work as pages at the state Capitol in Oklahoma City. 

“I have been in the foster care system for about two years, but I recently aged-out,” said Lou Moore, 18, from Minco. “The Independent Living program provides lots of great information like getting a car, finding an apartment, the usual stuff when you get out on your own.”

Moore says he has completed several college courses already, and plans to attend Redlands Community College in the fall. He wants to major in natural resource ecology and management, eventually getting into the field of wildlife biology.

“This was my second year as a Capitol page, and it’s been a blast,” Moore said. “I had my picture taken with the Governor. You can be walking through the Rotunda and a legislator will ask your name, or offer to take you to lunch.  It’s really an honor to be able to do this, and it’s a lot of fun too.”

Another Capitol page, Desirae Burris, has spent much of her teenage years in the foster system. Now at age 18 the Madill resident says she is finally in the process of being adopted.

“I remember going to adoption parties as a kid and never being adopted,” Burris said. “Finally it’s happening and I’m very excited.
“Next year I am planning to attend college in Durant, and major in history. Being a page here at the Capitol is a lot of fun. There is so much history in this building, and I think it will help me with my communication skills too,” Burris said.

A total of 22 foster youth participated in the Capitol page program, according to Hill-Myers. Each one chosen to participate was at the top of their class.

“These kids are on the honor roll and hold leadership positions in clubs and activities. They excel in sports and academics and are role models in their communities,” Hill-Myers said. “We strive to provide our youth with numerous opportunities to excel and find their passion in life so they can make goals and meet those goals.  Page week is just one of those avenues we offer our youth and we are so grateful to the legislators who host them and provide this experience.”

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      Minco resident Lou Moore              Madill resident Desirae Burris